I thank the Regional Group for tabling this is an important motion. We have seen many others like it over the past 18 months. The motion is a reflection of the justified pressured that is placed on all of us as public representatives when we knock on doors, meet people and hear these hard stories. A sum of €600 million to abolish the means testing for the carer's allowance does not seem like a huge price to pay, particularly when we consider the money saved by the Exchequer as a result of the care provided by these families.
I want to give a voice to a person who is in the Gallery. One of the things I have found most difficult during my time in Dáil Éireann is every week hearing about, seeing or witnessing a parent, a family member or a child coming here to seek a basic necessity that should be given by the State but that is not being given. I was made aware on Monday of a woman who had started camping outside Dáil Éireann on Friday evening last. I was told she is a person from my constituency, whom I had met several years ago but with whom I had lost touch. Her name is Nadine Staunton. She is in the Gallery today. When I went outside to talk to Nadine at 6 p.m., she was sitting outside her tent. It had just started to become quite cold. She told me, and the many people who are following her journey on social media, that the reason she is going through this struggle is for her sons. I asked Nadine what it would take for her to go home that evening and she said that she simply wants to be listened to and for her voice to be heard by those in positions of authority who have the capacity to make a difference, not just for her children but for others as well.
I am going to read Nadine's words into the record because that was the promise I made. Nadine is a carer, and I want to give an indication of what she has had to experience over the past number of years.
In Nadine's words:
I wanted to take a moment to share a little bit about my life as a mother to my two wonderful boys, Maddix and Jefferson. My world revolves around them, and every day is dedicated to making sure their needs are met, especially as both of my boys have autism. It’s not always easy, but it’s the most important thing in my life.
Most days, I'm up by 6 a.m. because there’s always so much to do to make sure everything is just right for the boys. From planning their meals to laying out their clothes, setting up their routines, and preparing them for the day ahead, it’s all about ensuring things run smoothly for them. Maddix and Jefferson thrive on structure, and I know how much they need that predictability to feel safe and supported. By the time the world wakes up, I've already been running on full speed, making sure they're ready to face the day.
At 12 and 9, Maddix and Jefferson are at different stages in life, but both of them need me in unique ways. Raising children with autism is a constant learning process. Some days it feels like I've got it under control, and other days, I'm met with new challenges I couldn't have expected. From navigating sensory issues to helping them communicate and understand the world around them, every day is different. But no matter what the day brings, my goal is always the same - to make sure they're growing and learning in a way that builds their confidence and independence.
One of the hardest parts is making sure they have access to the services they need. It's not easy to get the right support, and I often find myself having to fight for the therapies, educational programs, and resources that are so vital for their success. It's exhausting, both physically and mentally, but I know how important these services are for their development, and I won't stop until they get what they need.
The truth is, there's very little time for rest or "me time". Even when the day winds down, my mind doesn't. I'm always thinking about the next steps - what needs to be done tomorrow, what appointments are coming up, and how I can continue to advocate for them. I'm their voice in so many ways, and that's a responsibility I take to heart every single day.
Despite how overwhelming it can feel at times, I wouldn't trade it for the world. Maddix and Jefferson are my everything. Watching them grow and progress, even in small ways, makes all the long days and sleepless nights worth it. They're strong, resilient, and capable in ways that inspire me every day, and I'm committed to doing whatever it takes to help them become the best versions of themselves.
This journey is full of challenges, but it's also full of love and purpose. And for my boys, I'll continue to give everything I have, no matter how hard it gets.
When I was sitting in the Gallery with Nadine just now, she told me that it took a full three years for her to finally be eligible for a carer's allowance, having been so rigidly assessed through that assessment of needs. It is a cruel system. It asks too much of people who are depending on it, and at the same time while they are providing absolutely valuable care to those who need it, and also supporting the State while the State has abdicated on those responsibilities more collectively.
I do not need to remind anybody in this room of the immense pressure placed on our health and social care system. We hear it every single day - waiting lists, overcrowded hospitals and overworked staff. What is often missing in this conversation is the role played by the unsung heroes of Irish society. That is our carers, the mothers, fathers, sons and daughters who, without pay, take on the hardest, most emotional work imaginable, looking after their family members who are sick, elderly or have a disability.
The carers are not just providing care. They are saving the State millions by keeping people they love out of nursing homes, hospitals and other institutions in some cases. In spite of all this, we ask them to prove their worth, not by the incredible care they provide but how little they earn. That is how we ask them to prove their worth: tell us you are poor enough to avail of State support for the invaluable support that you provide to the State. It is unjust in so many ways. I will repeat again that €600 million to abolish that seems incredibly reasonable to me, and I certainly would not bat an eyelid at that.
There have been many other stories. Some were captured here today. During one of the last motions brought to the Dáil on abolishing the carer's allowance, I spoke to a woman whose name I actually have not got permission to use, who told me a little bit about her story. Like so many other people across Ireland, her life was upended when her husband was diagnosed with a degenerative neurological condition. He needs full-time care. He cannot dress himself, cannot get out of bed without help and he struggles with basic tasks like eating and even communicating some days.
The person I met did what most others would do in that situation. She stepped up and became a carer to her own husband. We know, and everybody here knows, that stepping up had a cost. The person was at one time a full-time teacher. She had to reduce her hours and eventually stopped working altogether. She lost her income, and yet the financial demands only increased with adapting their home for her husband's mobility issues, buying medical equipment and paying for the occasional respite care, none of which, we know, comes cheap. Then, here is the kicker. Despite all of this, and despite giving up her career, her earnings and her mental and physical health, she was then told by the State that she does not qualify for carer's allowance. Why was that? Because her husband's modest pension pushed them above the income threshold. In other words, the means test failed to account for the real lived experience of families like Mary's. It only sees numbers on a page, not the financial, emotional and physical toil of full-time caring.
That couple is not an exception. They are very much the rule, and there are thousands replicated across the length and breadth of this country who are in similar circumstances, who provide invaluable care to a loved one and are saving the State millions, and who are being told that they must suffer not only emotionally but financially. It is cruel, unjust and not reflective of a republic of decency. It is one where we ask too much of too many people to prove that they are financially burdened enough so the State can step in and provide a modicum of assistance.
If €600 million is the figure that the Minister of State has figured to abolish this, good. Get rid of it. Do I accept that some people may, in some instances, take advantage of the system? Absolutely. I would rather that scenario than the system crushing thousands upon thousands of people every single week, as is the reality today.